With 35 years spent in the funeral business, I penned my memoir book Undertakings of an Undertaker in 2015, and a new fiction short story book Tales Unleashed in 2019. I'm intrigued by 'unusual' type stories and will be presenting some here for you..please stop in often! (following each post here, you may leave a comment by clicking on 'no comments' ..then leave yours!
Friday, January 29, 2021
The loss of Buddy Holly, part 4....
Wednesday, January 27, 2021
The loss of Buddy Holly, part 3
It's February 3rd, 1959, within a few minutes of 1:00 a.m. Young pilot Peterson takes off
The short flight and the crash..
parts 1 and 2 are found below....
Monday, January 25, 2021
The loss of Buddy Holly, part 2
Saturday, January 23, 2021
The loss of Buddy Holly, part 1
Part 1, the Pilot, Roger Peterson
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Saturday, January 16, 2021
Trust your instincts....
You were about to cross the street, and you had the right of way,
but all of a sudden, something told you to stop...to stop quickly,
and perhaps even step back a bit.
It was like a magical force holding you in place as your body
stiffened to the silent message that pierced your brain...and
as you stopped in your tracks a delivery truck entered your
vision and zoomed past you just one foot from where
you stood.
The concussion of the passing air chilled you to the bone as
you suddenly realized that you had just escaped being crushed
by this two ton mass of rolling steel.
Your silent instinct, your intuition, messaged you that there
was danger before you.....and thank goodness you listened.
Did you ever experience something like this in your life?
Perhaps maybe an event or situation not quite so dramatic,
yet possibly life changing?
Your instinct, or intuition, I believe is a God given sense,
much like hearing, speaking, smelling, touching. Your
instinct or 'gut' feeling is always correct. But in order
to use it effectively, you must trust it, embrace it..
nurture it.
I knew a lady years ago who had experienced an event as
the one I just wrote about above. She actually believed it
was her instinct, or guardian angel as she suggested,
that saved her life. She still talks about it to this day.
So whether it's picking out the right check out lane at
the grocery store...or getting into the more
comfortable lane of driving... or heading out on the
road before a coming storm.... follow your instinct.
Your intuition will serve you well. Some may call
you superstitious, weird, paranoid, etc. Don't let
them bother you. You can always come back with,
"I knew you were going to call me that."
That is your instinct....it's a gift.
Have an experience like this? If so...comment below,
I'd love to hear about it. SS
oh...as an add on here...and this is more of a
'strange' as I call it....a few years ago I had
an email from a clairvoyant in California..who had
heard me on the national radio show Coast to Coast
A.M.....she told me that in 2018... I would be
publishing a 2nd book....one not of undertaking, but
it might contain or story or two about such.. and
it would be of short stories. She was spot on.
The second book Tales Unleashed was actually
Believe it or not.
Sunday, January 3, 2021
What do you want for yourself?
It's never an easy topic to discuss........even to think about for most
people...but it's one that has to be contemplated.
What do I want my family or survivors to do with me once I pass on?
Have you talked about it with your wife? children? significant other?
You will save your loved ones from terrific stress and frustration
if you let your wishes be known ahead of time....yes, ahead of time.
So many options to think about....burial....cremation...donation of your
body for research....calling hours... no calling hours...viewing... no
viewing...final place of disposition (cemetery) for body or cremains..
It seems like an endless list....but it can be quite simple if you just sit
down and talk about it.
If you have a computer, you can go on line and just google;
preparing for my final disposition.
There will be many sites that can help you figure out what's best for
you ...and your family. Better yet, call your LOCAL funeral director and
tell him you need to sit down and talk about your 'end needs'.... he'll
be happy to give you all the answers you want, and that will help to
eliminate doubts, fears and questions you may have built up in your
mind over the years.
The most peaceful people I ever dealt with while in the funeral business
were those that had 'a plan' in place....believe me...it just makes good
common sense. Call someone soon....establish a plan...and relax.