With 35 years spent in the funeral business, I penned my memoir book Undertakings of an Undertaker in 2015, and a new fiction short story book Tales Unleashed in 2019. I'm intrigued by 'unusual' type stories and will be presenting some here for you..please stop in often! (following each post here, you may leave a comment by clicking on 'no comments' ..then leave yours!
Friday, August 16, 2019
A chilling adventure near Interlaken...
Emily and Melissa were cousins, and at the age of fifteen, each
had her own idea of what would come their respective ways later
in life. Emily and her family had moved to Boston, Melissa, a country
girl at heart, remained at home with her folks in Interlaken. Interlaken,
a magical little town in the Fingerlakes and resting place for that most
famous writer Rod Serling of the Twilight Zone.
On one fine day while visiting her cousin Melissa, Emily would be
taken on an expedition to find the remains of a family home that had
been destroyed years before by fire... a fire that took the home and the
three people who lived within it.
Melissa told Emily that the only thing standing was the chimney... and
that she had to see it.....
So the girls set off on their adventure...not quite sure of what they would
encounter....it would be an afternoon of exploring....seeing, experiencing,
wondering and questioning.
'The Forgotten Chimney', it's the last story in the new fiction story book
Tales Unleashed, now at Amazon and Barnes and Noble. You can read
the first two stories by just opening the book at either of those locations.
Enjoy. SS
Friday, August 9, 2019
A son flies his father home...
What an incredible story....a five year old son says goodbye to his
father in 1967...his father going to Vietnam as a fighter pilot.....
and now, more that five decades later that son flies his father's
remains back home. It's a great story....we thank him for his
service, his life given...his dedicated family.
Born in Texas in 1931, Roy Abner Knight Jr. was the sixth of eight children. He joined the U.S. Air Force just days after his 17th birthday. He started off as a clerk and typist at various locations in Southeast Asia, but eventually attended officer candidate school in the U.S. By 1953, he was a commissioned officer, and in 1957, he began flight training in Texas. He shipped overseas in January 1967, reporting to the 602nd Fighter Squadron (Commando) at Udorn Royal Thai Air Force Base. He flew combat missions almost every day until he was shot down on May 19, 1967. His obit states that he was posthumously awarded the Air Force Cross, Silver Star, Distinguished Flying Cross, Purple Heart and six air medals. But his final honor would involve his own family. On this day, his son Bryan — that five-year-old son who had waved goodbye to him when he left for overseas in 1967 — is now a captain with Southwest Airlines, and was the pilot brought home his father home 52 years after that goodbye.
Friday, August 2, 2019
Remembering Jim Reeves..
If you are or were a country music fan...you would remember the velvet
smooth voice of one of the all time greats, Jim Reeves. Being discovered
in the late 1950's and having the zenith of his short career in the early
60's...he was a tremendous talent. It was on July 31st, 1964, fifty five
years ago this last week that he and one other were lost in a plane crash.
The following is a quick review of that incident. Much of it taken
from Wikepedia............The best way to remember Jim Reeves: play his music,
and share it with someone who has never been exposed to it....he was awesome.
On Friday, July 31, 1964, Reeves and his business partner and
manager Dean Manuel (also the pianist of Reeves' backing group, the Blue Boys)
left Batesville, Arkansas, en route to Nashville in a single-engine Beechcraft Debonair aircraft,
with Reeves at the controls. The two had secured a deal on some real estate
(Reeves had also unsuccessfully tried to buy property from the LaGrone family
in Deadwood, Texas, north of his birthplace of Galloway).
While flying over Brentwood, Tennessee, they encountered a violent thunderstorm. A subsequent
investigation showed that the small airplane had become caught in the storm and
Reeves suffered spatial disorientation. The singer's widow, Mary Reeves (1929–1999), probably
unwittingly started the rumor that he was flying the airplane upside down and
assumed he was increasing altitude to clear the storm. However, according to
Larry Jordan, author of the 2011 biography, Jim Reeves: His Untold
Story, this scenario is rebutted by eyewitnesses known to crash
investigators who saw the plane overhead immediately before the mishap and
confirmed that Reeves was not upside down. Reeves' friend, the musician Marty Robbins, recalled hearing the wreck happen and
alerting authorities to which direction he heard the impact. Jordan writes
extensively about forensic evidence (including from the long-elusive tower tape
and accident report), which suggests that instead of making a right turn to
avoid the storm (as he had been advised by the approach controller to do),
Reeves turned left in an attempt to follow Franklin Road to the airport. In so
doing, he flew further into the rain. While preoccupied with trying to re-establish
his ground references, Reeves let his airspeed get too low and stalled the
aircraft. Relying on his instincts more than his training, evidence suggests he
applied full power and pulled back on the yoke before leveling his wings—a
fatal, but not uncommon, mistake that induced a stall/spin from which he was
too low to recover. Jordan writes that according to the tower tape, Reeves ran
into the heavy rain at 4:51 p.m. and crashed only a minute later, at
4:52 p.m.
When the wreckage was found some 42 hours later, it was
discovered the airplane's engine and nose were buried in the ground due to the
impact of the crash. The crash site was in a wooded area north-northeast of
Brentwood approximately at the junction of Baxter Lane and Franklin Pike
Circle, just east of Interstate 65, and southwest of Nashville International Airportwhere Reeves planned to land.
On the morning of August 2, 1964, after an intense search by
several parties (which included several personal friends of Reeves
including Ernest Tubb and Marty Robbins) the bodies of the singer and Dean Manuel
were found in the wreckage of the aircraft and, at 1:00 p.m. local time,
radio stations across the United States began to announce Reeves' death
formally. Thousands of people traveled to pay their last respects at his
funeral two days later. The coffin, draped in flowers from fans, was driven
through the streets of Nashville and then to Reeves' final resting place near
Carthage, Texas.
(as a foot note...and this is a bit strange...well, more than a bit actually.
While walking thru a second hand record store earlier this week... I
happened to be going through albums when I saw this particular one..
and I remember my dad having it and others by Reeves and Eddy Arnold.
I thought... gee maybe I should do a quick note about Reeves...kind of
remembering it was summer when he died in the airplane crash.
So, Friday, I quickly put the post together...then started checking the dates..
I composed the piece two days after the crash of July 31st.. and
actually posted it on Aug. 2nd...it was 47 hours after the crash that they
actually found the airplane...on Aug. 2nd. Now that is just a bit weird..
even for me... a conservative type guy.)
(as a foot note...and this is a bit strange...well, more than a bit actually.
While walking thru a second hand record store earlier this week... I
happened to be going through albums when I saw this particular one..
and I remember my dad having it and others by Reeves and Eddy Arnold.
I thought... gee maybe I should do a quick note about Reeves...kind of
remembering it was summer when he died in the airplane crash.
So, Friday, I quickly put the post together...then started checking the dates..
I composed the piece two days after the crash of July 31st.. and
actually posted it on Aug. 2nd...it was 47 hours after the crash that they
actually found the airplane...on Aug. 2nd. Now that is just a bit weird..
even for me... a conservative type guy.)
Thursday, August 1, 2019
The second appearance...
on Ron's Amazing Stories.....to talk about Tales Unleashed...
It's now produced and up on the web!
If you go to Ron's Amazing Stories....it's his latest addition to
his programming...I'm in the middle of episode 391, Spacemen
Never die. Once you start the program...scroll to point 23:00
minutes in... that's where our discussion begins.
It was a fun 22 minutes with him... and I thank Ron for his
continues support of both Undertakings, and now of Tales
Unleashed! SS And if you missed it a year ago.... scroll down for
the story to my visit to Interlaken, N.Y. and Rod Serling.
Friday, July 26, 2019
From almost a year ago..
For my new followers here on the world wide web, I'm repeating this post that
appeared, well, almost one year ago. It's a story of my visit to the resting place
of Rod Serling, superb writer, creator of the Twilight Zone and Night Gallery.
It was an awesome day. I hope as you read the article and view the pictures,
you will be drawn into the mystery of Rod Serling... a man of incredible
talent. It's not unusual that his programs are as much watched today as they
were thirty and forty years ago.....
So, sit back, enjoy the read. And if you ever get to Interlaken, N.Y., a stop
and a 'visit' with him must be on your list!
Wednesday, September 12, 2018
Visiting Rod Serling.....
I'd been planning the trip for sometime now...an hour and one half from Loon
Lake here in Cohocton....but the drive was well worth the discovery.
Rod Serling's grave site in Interlaken, N.Y. was an experience, let me tell you.
When I was a mile out, the anticipation grew, I was hoping I would not have
difficulty finding the spot, but the map I had spelled out the location pretty
well.
Driving thru the gate and meandering thru to section G reminded me of many
funerals I have had over the years....the quiet, the peaceful surroundings...
being anxious to get to the right place. The last turn to section G where he
is buried had some pretty good washouts, but my car handled them easily,
and I pulled over and parked. Grabbing my camera and tripod, I headed up
the slight incline to where the map indicated where he rested....
I found rows of markers with death dates of the 90s', then the 80's...then
I hit the 70's and I knew I was very very close. Within thirty feet, a grave
that looked a little 'busy' with things around the stone jumped out at me.
As I walked up to the the grave, I was actually overwhelmed. Here he was.
Rod Serling, master of the short story, creator of the world famous
Twilight Zone, followed by Night Gallery. Wow. I was finally here.
I had followed him and Alfred Hitchcock for years...enjoying their stories
and most of all, their surprise endings to their stories. I have mentioned both
writers on the back cover of my new book Tales Unleashed coming out this
fall.
As I knelt down to inspect Rod's simple 12 by 24 grave marker...I could tell
that he has not been forgotten. Many who traveled here before me left little
tokens, coins, photographs of Rod. It's so pleasurable to know that others
have made the journey here before me... just to experience this guy and
the talent that he had. But what a short life, just 50. How much more could
he have written if he had lived to 70, 80 and beyond?
A flag also was present..he served in the Army, WW2. He had received
several medals during service in the Pacific.
So in the quiet, I sat my tripod, took some photos, spoke a few words to
this man, thanking him for his stories, in inspirations, and for his service
to the country.
Wikipedia has an excellent long biography of Rod. You should go there
sometime and read it. He had many
many talents indeed.
As you know, Serling was a big smoker...the following explained that
and his death:
Serling was said to smoke 3-4 packs of cigarettes a day. On May 3, 1975, he had a minor heart attack and was hospitalized. He spent two weeks at Tompkins County Community Hospital before being released. A second heart attack two weeks later forced doctors to agree that open-heart surgery, though considered risky at the time, was in order. The ten-hour-long procedure was performed on June 26, but Serling had a third heart attack on the operating table and died two days later at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, New York. He was 50 years old. His funeral and burial took place on July 2 at Lake View Cemetery, Interlaken, (Seneca County), New York.
His grave site is easy to find, and is lot G, plot 1044. He has a simple 12” by 24” headstone.
Contributing factors to his early death included the fact that he was a very heavy smoker,
his favorite being Chesterfield ‘long’ cigarettes. He endorsed the brand and was rarely seen
without a cigarette in his hand, even while introducing some of his TV episodes.
I wasn't at his grave site too awfully long. I almost felt like an intruder into this
space, a quiet and serene place....you could here a pin drop.
Thanks Rod. Perhaps I'll go back there another day. If you find yourself in the
Fingerlakes of New York, direct your car to that gate. It's a place that is indeed
where your imagination can abound, where time itself slows to a halt...it's
a place where the Twilight Zone has come to rest. SS
Tuesday, July 9, 2019
Going strong in the UK...
The ever-present internet and the things that can be achieved.
My publisher Book Stand Publishing of Morgan Hill California
reports to me today that Undertakings of an Undertaker, true
stories of being laid to rest is still showing great strength in the
UK. First published in early 2015... I've promoted it greatly in
the four years plus since it first came out... and surprising to me
is the fact that it just keeps on going... kind of like the Energizer
bunny I guess. If you are one of my followers in the UK, I thank
you very much for your support and I hope you are enjoying the
read.
My continued thanks to Peter Abraham, undertaker in Bristol,
UK for his promoting the book...he did a super nice review for
me on You Tube a little while back.
A few announcements about Tales Unleashed coming up...summer
is usually quiet for actual speaking engagements, but I have a few
in the planning stages and will share them with you shortly.
Enjoy the hot weather... you know how changeable it can be on this
old planet... it's just not predictable like it used to be.
Stay well friends and thanks for stopping in! SS
Monday, July 1, 2019
'The best is yet to come'....
I'm not sure of the origin of this very and endearing practice... I performed
this touching 'rite' once while owning our funeral home, and once while
I directed at funeral homes in Corning, New York.
The rite involves a dinner fork...and goes like this.
A husband requested after his wife pass away, that during calling hours,
a dinner fork would be placed in her resting hands. The funeral director
naturally wanted to know the reason for such request.. and the husband
responded with the following.
"Well, Margaret and I loved going to every church supper that we could
attend. She loved the church, the friendliness of those in attendance.. and
how can you beat the food at a church supper?
Well, one day as a lady was picking up our plates and we waited for the
dessert to be brought forward, the lady said to my wife, 'Keep the fork...
the best is yet come.' And we did just that.
Being of great faith, Margaret and I were both believers that there
certainly is life after death... and much like dessert after a glorious
meal..we both knew that after death.... the 'best is yet to come'.
As I said, I'm not sure of the origin of this wonderful and touching
practice, but it is a great conversation piece.
If your funeral director asks you if you would like something
very unique and touching for your spouse at passing....maybe this
might just be for you!
Have a great week folks! SS
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